August 10, 2008
In a situation where an individual needs to choose between holding on and letting go, it's more likely that he will decide to let go than to fight for what he wants. It is always conventional to do things that you know won't hurt you.
Nakakatawa mang isipin, we are afraid of taking risks sa mga bagay na alam nating masasaktan lamang tayo. Hindi pa man sinusubukan, gusto ng mag let go.
Paano mo malalaman ang magiging outcome ng isang bagay kung hindi mo man lang susubukan na maghintay at ipaglaban ito. Kung matotorpe ka lang sa isang sulok, it seems hindi yun letting go, pero sign ng pagiging duwag. Mahirap mag-assume hanggat walang nangyayari. Why not hold on and wait. Pero walang magagawa ang paghihintay kung wala ka rin namang gagawin. Malay mo, sa paghold on mo... magiging posible ang inakala mong hindi mangyayari.
Totoo ngang wala sa atin ang kontrol kung ano mangyayari sa buhay natin, pero nasa sa atin pa rin ang kakayahan para kahit papano magawa nating maabot ang pinapangarap natin.
It doesn't really matter on how you let go, it's about how you hold on.
Pero every action, may katumbas na consequence. You must be ready kung ano man ang kalalabasan ng magiging decision mo.
Once you've already let go, have the courage that you might never have that person again,
because goodbyes are not created for nothing...
It really ends something.
Nakakatawa mang isipin, we are afraid of taking risks sa mga bagay na alam nating masasaktan lamang tayo. Hindi pa man sinusubukan, gusto ng mag let go.
Paano mo malalaman ang magiging outcome ng isang bagay kung hindi mo man lang susubukan na maghintay at ipaglaban ito. Kung matotorpe ka lang sa isang sulok, it seems hindi yun letting go, pero sign ng pagiging duwag. Mahirap mag-assume hanggat walang nangyayari. Why not hold on and wait. Pero walang magagawa ang paghihintay kung wala ka rin namang gagawin. Malay mo, sa paghold on mo... magiging posible ang inakala mong hindi mangyayari.
Totoo ngang wala sa atin ang kontrol kung ano mangyayari sa buhay natin, pero nasa sa atin pa rin ang kakayahan para kahit papano magawa nating maabot ang pinapangarap natin.
It doesn't really matter on how you let go, it's about how you hold on.
Pero every action, may katumbas na consequence. You must be ready kung ano man ang kalalabasan ng magiging decision mo.
Once you've already let go, have the courage that you might never have that person again,
because goodbyes are not created for nothing...
It really ends something.
